Well it’s time for another rambling on Stuff. I once called these things …. Sermon from the Couch. Today it’s Ramblings from the Lanai.
Subject : To Be Determined after I get done.
So what’s bothering me you ask? Or if you didn’t ask your going to hear about it anyway. Just paid $25 to update my blog Domain Name for another year so I get to rant, rave, complain, complement, criticize, put down, build up, and just generally blow steam now for another whole year.
Where we live now, Ayrshire Circle in Port Charlotte, FL. is having a yard/garage sale today and tomorrow. Bonnie said she had to be up by 6 a.m. to put things out by 7 a.m. for this event. I said nobody comes to these things that early. And that’s where I erred.
Since Bonnie, being a retired language arts teacher, has more books in boxes in the garage than library of congress, many of the items we put out on the driveway for the sale were books. And some other items.
We’ll I was blown away by the number of people who stopped by between 7 a.m. and 12:55 pm. And not only was it the number people …it was the people.
I have never ever in my life met people who were so warm and friendly.
I am not Mr Verbal Conversation .. but I did not meet one person that I could not carry on a conversation. People who could share stories with me and I with them.
Southwestern Florida is a considered retirement area, a Snowbird Area, and certain portions, a tourist area.
After Bonnie’s and my careers ended we moved here for reasons that I have written about before and will not go into now. The stress level here, compared to where we have lived and what we have experienced in our lives, well on a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being highest stress, is -1!
Unlike the Washington D.C. area, here I can honestly say, “I HAVE NOT MET A PERSON I DIDN’T LIKE, NOR HAVE I MET A PERSON WHO ACTED IN ANY MANOR THAT WOULD MAKE ME THINK THEY DIDN’T LIKE ME!”
There is this BOOK that talks about love. One of the translation of a statement on the four types of Love one is called AGAPE. Agape is considered unconditional love. It is a form of love that I, regardless of what I just said, that humans are not totally capable of. But, if we were, the people I met today and have met since moving here, it is close. Really close.
Just the fact that anyone will accept you for who you are, who you where, will share stories without prejudice, will say a kind word, laugh, smile, wave, and not mention what you need to do to be something different is not only foreign to me but so unexpected and such a bizarrely pleasant experience.
We sold some stuff. Made about $80, but more importantly made some new friends. In fact we actually gave away some things for free.
So what’s the morale of this story? Forrest Gump said the famous line of “Life is like a box of chocolates, ya never know what your gonna get”
I think that statement holds a bit of truth, but I’ll change it based on my life .. “Life is like a box of chocolates, you never get what you expect!”
And now, at retirement age, the golden years they call them, this baby boomer, presently, not only has a great box of chocolates, this baby boomer got the GOLDEN TICKET!